An open, empty mailbox with the flag down. It means no mail: an empty inbox, no replies, nobody wrote back.
People use it for inbox zero, for waiting on a reply that never comes, and for feeling ghosted. It has a gently sad or lonely tone, often with ๐ฅฒ or ๐ถ.
Facts
Open mailbox with lowered flag ๐ญ is an emoji in the objects category, under mail. It is one of the early emoji from Japanese phones, standardized in Unicode 7.0 (2014). On GitHub, Slack and other apps you can type it as :mailbox_with_no_mail: or :open_mailbox_with_lowered_flag:. People also look for it with words like โflagโ, โloweredโ, โmailโ, or โmailboxโ.
Timeline
2014Added to the emoji standard (Unicode 7.0)
Design history
Google (Noto)
2015
2017
2021
Twemoji (X, Discord)
2014
2016
Google Noto Emoji images: Apache 2.0. Twemoji graphics by X Corp and contributors: CC-BY 4.0.